Loving Mother, Grandmother and Greatgrandmother Sarah Brickman

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Sarah Brickman
December 13, 1913 - February 14, 2006

 Biography

My mother, Sarah Brickman had the special gift of impacting the life of everyone she met.  The people who called her friend ranged from very young to very old and I know each of you have at least one story that you would like to share.  This is the place and I sincerely encourage each and every one of you to take a few minutes and share that story with us on this site.  This site will be here for generations for all her family and friends to visit and remember the good times.  So thank you for helping me remember and continuuing her legacy.  Sincerely....Faye


In the late 1800's in a part of the world call Bella-Russ (Poland/Russia) was a small village.  The families of Julia and Harris lived in that village, but they never knew each other.  When my grandparents, Julia and Harris were young, they both separately emigrated to the United States.  They both had family in New York City and both settled there.  The story has it that my grandmother (Sarah's mom) was one of the more feisty members of the family and when she was in her teens she approached her older sister about taking night classes to learn English.  This made sense and Julia was given the money each week to attend the classes.  But, as we come to find out, instead of classes Miss Julia went to dances.  It was at one of these dances that she met Harris.  They fell in love, he asked the sister if he could court and then marry Julia and so begins the future of Sarah Brickman nee Levine's life.  An interesting fact:  Julia married Harris; Julias sister married Harris' brother. 

Julia and Harris had 2 children, my Uncle Abe and 10 years later, on December 13, 1913, my Mother Sarah was born.  She got such a kick out of the double 13 and always enjoyed telling people her birth date. They lived on the lower eastside in Manhattan along with hoardes of other Jewish immigrants.  My mom often told me how she had to drink a raw egg drink every day as well as take a spoonful of cod liver oil.  Instead of medicine there was the corner herb shop where they would mix up a potion for every illness under the sun.  For those of you who knew my mom, you knew how much she disliked doctors and how much  she hated taking medicine which she avoided as much as possible.  She did as much natural healing as she could.  I am sure this contributed to the wonderful 92 years she had on this earth.  Julia and Harris were pretty religious and Sarah grew up in a strict home.  My grandmother was a spectacular cook and baker and somehow that never rubbed off on my mom.  Her interests were more in taking apart and fixing things.  I know that she had a bit of a rebellious and feisty streak, just like her own mom. I remember a story about Bing Crosby.  She was gaga over Bing Crosby and has some posters of him up on her wall.  Her parents hated it and took it off the wall.  As quickly as she could, she would put that poster back up.  This was a beginning inkling of her own little rebellious streak. I know she used to sneak out with her friends and go to dances and car rides with the boys.Another story she loved to tell was about one day when she along with half the Jews in  NYC were on the subway bound for Coney Island.  Since the train was so crowded my mom had to stand for the ride.  Opposite her was this big burly young man who was obviously upset at having to be in this hot crowded train.  He began to rant about how "these Jews" were taking over and how they should stay home blah blah...Sarah, at that time was all of 4ft 11 inches, very slim and quite pretty. She listened to this ranting and then Wham...took the large purse she was carrying and smacked that guy right in the face.  Taken by surprise and probably very embarassed, he got off that train at the very next stop.  My mom did not take anything from anyone.  She was very bold and let everyone know it.  She always told me that she never really had much interest in getting married and so when she was 30 and still not married, the family began to put the full court press on.  About that time my father Rubin Brickman entered the picture.  He courted hot and heavy and after a while she caved in and they were married in 1943.  My dad was in the service at the time, but because of a minor injury which left him deaf in one ear, he was stationed stateside.  When he got honorably discharged he and my mom got an apartment and that was the beginning of the future Faye.  This is a little family secret, but in the late 40's and early 50's my dads career was in numbers running.  This was an illegal form of gambling and quite risky.  My mom told me that sometimes when there was someone at the door, my dad would quick run out onto the firescape to hide.  After some time my mom decided that we could not live this way and persuaded him to get into something different....which he did.   In November or December of 1946 my mom became pregnant with me and on September 23, 1947 I was born.  It just so happened that it was Yom Kipper which is the most Holy day (the day of atonement) for the Jewish people.  My mom told me that  all the people in their synogogue that evening stopped the service to say a prayer for both Sarah and me.  I consider that an incredible blessing and I know that it affected our lives greatly.  My mom was a very devoted, fiercely protective and wonderfully creative mother.  When I was young we used to do lots of fun things together.  We went to some great parks, and museums and childrens puppet shows and plays.  New York is such a huge place with so much to see and do and the times were so much safer that we really enjoyed our time together.  As most of you know she was such a generous woman.  When I was about 5 or 6 and in grade school, we used to be able to walk home for lunch.  The neighborhood we lived in was very ethnically diverse.  Jewish, Italian, Chinese, African American and Puerto Rican.  I would inevitably bring home 2 or three of my buddies for lunch.  Since there was no prior warning of when or how many there would be, my mom often gave up her own lunch to feed the group.  She was a fantastic seamstress and made most of my clothes when I was young.  She sewed everything by hand and made some really gorgeous clothing.  Dresses, Coats, blouses.  She was a great knitter and made me some of the most beautiful sweaters and scarves.  Sarah could take apart washing machines, toaster ovens, sewing machines or any electrical device that was around.  If it was possible to fix it, she would and then put everything back together.  I am going to pause in this biography for now.  I have alot more to write which will bring this bio up to current times, but I have some cards to get out to all of you and I really want to get that done.  I hope you all will have an opportunity to read this and check back periodically to get the updates.  I also hope to see some of your own stories posted on this site and again, I want to thank each and every one of you for being her friend and sharing your lives with Miss Sarah.  She was such a huge part of mine and Jeff's life and a very important part of my children's (Ross & Lev) lives.  She will live on forever in our hearts, and this site will provide a place to go to read history and see some video and photos to help keep those memories alive.  Love....Faye

 Tributes
 A Tribute from Leslie (Friend of Faye) April 4th, 2006 1:30pm
FOR SARAH

THOUGH THE VOICE IS QUIET, THE SPIRIT ECHOES STILL

LIKE THE STARS BY DAY
OUR BELOVED ARE NOT SEEN BY MORTAL EYES
YET THEY SHINE ON FOREVER
THEIR'S IS ETERNAL PEACE
 A Tribute from Stuart Grunther (Dear Old Friend) February 17th, 2006 8:19am
There are few people in this world that leave an everlasting impression on ones life. Sarah was one of those people. I first met Sarah in the mid 1970's when I moved to Tennessee. Even though I was a young counterculture person and Sarah was 40 years my senior, she accepted me with open arms and an open mind. During those turbulent times, Sarah was always there to guide me and walk alongside me. I shall forever remember her undying spirit and hope. God bless you Sarah.
 A Tribute from MaryAnn Cummins (Good Friend) March 30th, 2006 1:48pm
I met Sarah Brickman in 1979 when I visited her as the Easter Bunny at Walnut Village. She was so sweet, and I felt a closeness to her right away. She invited me into her home and then she even talked to me about hwo I could get my own Mother into Walnut Village. I followed through with her suggestions, but there was a waiting list, and by the time there was an opening, my Mother had moved to California to be near my two sisters. Sarah Always made me feel loved, and I so enjoyed hearing about her earlier years in New York and then when she moved to Whitleyville, Tn. for a short time. That was quite a culture shock from New York. She then moved to an apartment on Clover Ave. in Cookeville and there she met a lovely young lady Elene Duncan who lived in the same apartment complex.
Sarah was always so uplifting. Whenever I called her or stopped by she had a GREAT ATTITUDE! Sometimes it was either TOO COLD OR TOO HOT, but we laughed a lot about it. She always asked about my husband, O.J.
I loved her alot and will always cherish the GREAT TIMES WE SHARED. She always asked if she could get me something to drink or eat. She always had the Tootsie Rolls in that dish on her little table by the couch. We have been blessed when the Lord brought Sarah into our lives. On August 22, 2001, I finally got Sarah over to our home with her neighbor Gladys Cass. At first Sarah wasn't going to come, but then when I mentioned that Gladys was coming, she said she would come. O.J. played the piano, and sax and clarinet for them. We took pictures and it was a VERY SPECIAL DAY FOR US. Faye, when you called to tell me about your Mom and I stopped over to see her, that was the first time I had ever seen or heard her hurt so much. It really tugged at my heart and we prayed for her to be restored to health. As you have said there were things that hastened her passing. I too wish that she could have been with us for many more years, but now I just thank our dear Lord that she didn't have to suffer for a long extended time, and just REMBER ALL THE LAUGHTER AND HAPPY MOMENTS SPENT WITH HER. I LOVED HER AND REALLY APPRECIATED BEING WITH HER. MARYANN
 A Tribute from Leslie (Friend of Faye) April 3rd, 2006 4:18pm
Though I have many fond memories of Sara, the one I think of most and the one that brings a smile to my face every time is the one where Sarah said to me - "Do you like fruit?" I said "Yes, I love fruit". She said "Then kiss my ass - it's a peach!" I remember being so shocked when I first heard it and then both Sarah and I getting hysterical with laughter. I still get hysterical when I think of it - it's so Sarah. I'm laughing now as I type this - I can't help it - it never ceases to make me laugh. Whenever I think of Sarah I think of this and what a sharp wit she had. I will always remember her that way and carry her in my heart.
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